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Commission Us - Family Hubs

The big idea, Family Hubs

We know that local authorities want to take advantage of this new way of thinking about best meeting families’ needs. For some it will be a radical overhaul and for others a question of bringing existing arrangements together, consulting with families about what they want for themselves and others.

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Tavistock Relationships is delighted that Family Hubs will put relationships at the heart of family help. But what does that really mean? Some local authorities have asked for help in how to assess relationship quality, between parents (whether they live together or apart), the parent-child relationship and wider family connections and networks. Relational practice will be the guiding principle, and this can feel daunting, how can we help all staff be interested in and curious about relationships? We need to support staff to be able to ask kind questions and to bear to hear the answers. This approach holds good for all families, whether it is a pregnant couple, parents struggling to respond to a one-year old’s crying, parents coming to terms with the fact their child is different or has a diagnosis that they need to understand or parents struggling to help their teenager cope with bullying or stresses at school.

Relationships at the centre

Some parents need flexible early interventions that help resolve problems, others will need the chance to work with staff for longer to resolve deep seated issues, they all deserve and need work that has positive evidence of effect, offered by a worker who is well trained and supervised. Staff from the different professional groups, working within the Family Hub or associated with it, need to have excellent relationships too, to help their work with families. Co-working and cross-agency working should be ordinary practice, but it can be challenging as well, with differences in culture and practice to overcome, not least with sharing agreed information about families. With a focus on children with disabilities and children under two years old with infant mental health or attachment issues collaboration across the Family Hub community is vital.

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Our offer

Tavistock Relationships provides a range of services designed to help Family Hubs delivery the relationally focused approach which the Government has signalled they are expected to provide.

We have borne in mind the central principles referenced by the National Centre for Family Hubs: Access, Connection and Relationships. We want to help you and your staff put relationship quality at the heart of Family Hub development and practice. This extends, of course, to the relationships of trust and change that workers make with families using the services.

Tavistock Relationships’ offer includes:

  • Training and consultancy
  • A specific term long development programme for Family Hub leaders and managers focused on relational practice and management
  • Consultancy on developing bespoke materials with an emphasis on digital delivery
  • The Tavistock Relationships Under-2’s offer and bespoke services for the perinatal period and beyond
  • Plus over a dozen topic training options from working with families with a child with Special Educational Needs and Disabilities to parents who are worried about their adolescent’s violence and aggression.

View: Family Hubs: Local Transformation Fund application guidance.

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Read our statement about how Family Hubs can support relationships and families

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Training to support couples during the perinatal period

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Training for Organisations

Commissioned training

We work with local authorities across the UK to develop and deliver training, evidence-based interventions, and bespoke workforce development packages.

You can contact us using the form below.

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We can help to develop a Family Hub model in your local authority

Keeping in mind the central principles referenced by the National Centre for Family Hubs 'Access, Connection and Relationships', we can help you and your staff put relationship quality at the heart of Family Hub development and practice.

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Training and tools to support couples during the perinatal period

We offer a range of trainings, as well as delivery of specific programmes and digital tools, all designed to help couples during this key time of transition.

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Commission us to deliver:

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    Mentalization based therapy

    A highly-effective 10-session intervention model for parents with high levels of conflict, suitable for separated or intact couples, either individually or together.

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    Parents as Partners

    Evidence-based groupwork intervention for parental couples/co-parents, featuring a manualised programme delivered either in person or online.

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    Reducing Parental Conflict Programmes

    Creating your own Local Authority Relationship Manifesto. Bespoke packages available.

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    Between Us app

    A relationship support app, designed to help people have a better relationship with their partner now and in the future.

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Specialist trainings

We can also offer the following:

Practitioner training

Frontline practitioner training for staff who work with families, identifying parental conflict with an emphasis on measuring the effectiveness of work. Includes training for schools, CAMHS and 'train the trainer' options.

Foundation level training around parental support

An introduction to thinking about parental couples, together or apart, and how work can be developed and better understood.

Please enquire using the form below.

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Bespoke projects

Tavistock Relationships can co-produce bespoke projects with Local Authorities and parents. Please contact us to discuss specific options which we can offer.

You can make an initial enquiry using the form below.

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Commissioner testimonials

We have worked closely with Tavistock Relationships as a cluster group of 4 Authority areas to develop a range of training for practitioners to equip them with the skills, knowledge and confidence to reduce parental conflict. Working with Tavistock we have found them to be very understanding of our needs and very flexible in their approach to ensure the best training opportunities to practitioners across our region.

Steve Macabee

 As well-known experts in this field we looked no further than Tavistock to help us on this developmental journey for our partnership, and we are very pleased we did. We now have 20 staff going through 6-month expert training; learning and developing new skills and ideas around supporting the parents' own relationship, and also supporting other staff in their teams who are working with couples in relationship distress. The training is excellent, giving those attending real space to reflect and design their specialist champion role so it fits with the different areas they work for.

Georgina Atkins, Parenting Lead Early Help Walsall M.B.C.

Local authorities we are currently working with:

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  • Coventry City Council logo

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Psychotherapy CPDs and Events

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Enhance your skills with our psychotherapy CPD events and short courses

We offer high-quality, informative and clinically relevant CPD events via our TR Together site.

TR Together, our professional learning platform, offers CPD events for psychotherapists, psychologists, and mental health professionals from diverse backgrounds and specialties. It provides high-quality teaching and learning as well as community engagement and collaboration from which therapists can gain clinical skills, connect with each other, and develop as practitioners.

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Couple relationships intro level course starting this autumn

If you are interested in couple relationships and the theories behind therapy but do not have a background in this area, why not consider our new Monday evening course over 11 weeks:

Our current programme of psychotherapy CPDs and events

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    Sex in the Brain: A Neuropsychosexual Approach to Love and Intimacy

    Karnac Author series

    Friday, May 10, 2024

    With Janice Hiller

    Live online event.

    2 CPD Credits

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    Forgiveness in Mental Health

    Forgiving and Being Forgiven

    Friday, May 17, 2024

    With Francis Grier & Aleksandra Novakovic

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    2.5 CPD Credits

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    Working with Dissociative Clients

    Clinical Insights from Valerie Sinason

    Friday, June 14, 2024

    With Valerie Sinason

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    3.5 CPD Credits

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    ADHD & ADD in Adult Psychotherapy

    Hidden neurodivergence that can mislead the clinician and short-change the patient

    Friday, June 21, 2024

    With Phil Mollon

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    3.5 CPD Credits

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    Contented Couples: Magic, Logic or Luck?

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    Friday, July 5, 2024

    With Anne Power

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    2 CPD Credits

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    Advanced Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy Summer School

    2024

    Tuesday, July 16, 2024 - Friday, July 19, 2024

    With Katherine Astill, Ella Bahaire, Alison Bruce, Andrew Balfour, Martha Doniach, Krisztina Glausius, Sammantha Knight, Damian McCann, Stan Ruszczynski, Elle Sidel & Catriona Wrottesley

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    20 CPD Credits

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    Psychoanalytic Treatment of Psychosis

    From breakdown to breakthrough

    Saturday, July 20, 2024

    With Danielle Knafo & Michael Selzer (Discussant)

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    3 CPD Credits

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    Working with Narcissistic Dynamics

    Saturday, October 5, 2024

    With Nancy McWilliams, PhD & ABPP

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    3.5 CPD Credits

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    An Intercultural Perspective on Psychoanalysis - Where do we stand now?

    A Two Day Live Webinar

    Friday, November 1, 2024 - Saturday, November 2, 2024

    With Prof Salman Akhtar

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    7 CPD Credits

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    Diagnosis and Its Clinical Implications

    Friday, January 24, 2025

    With Nancy McWilliams, PhD & ABPP

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    3.5 CPD Credits

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Working with Couples and Depression

This three-day training course, suitable for non-NHS couple therapists and counsellors, outlines a  time-limited integrative approach for working with couples who are experiencing both relationship distress and depression. Training is based around an effective, 20-session model called Couple Therapy for Depression (CTfD) which was commissioned by the NHS in 2010 for use in its Improving Access to Psychological Therapies services.

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Divorce and Separation

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Divorce and Separation Consultation Service

For most couples, there’s a sad paradox when it comes to divorce and separation – just when you need to be able to communicate with one another better than ever before, you’ve often stopped speaking at all.

This can be because all the changes and tensions between ‘soon to be ex partners’ become so overwhelming and seemingly impossible to manage, that people often shut down. Couples in this situation may come to us struggling to find the belief or confidence of finding a way to speak or negotiate with one another about decisions that need to be made.

The service offers a focussed opportunity to think about your individual situation. The aim is to help both individuals and couples think about their current struggles with the overall aim of fostering development for all concerned.

How does it work

The Divorce and Separation Consultation Service offers an initial three consultations with a therapist to help partners work on their communication. It’s for individuals as well as couples. Sometimes one person will come to us for the first consultation, and then their partner will join for the next.

At the last of the three consultations, it may be agreed for a further set if the process is found to be supportive. It’s not a long-term therapy service, but one that helps people think about their lives and how they want to live them, making the best choices they can.

The service isn’t just for people who are clear they want to separate. It’s also for people who are uncertain about their future. The emotional support we give can also help people to find a way to co-habit if they can’t afford to separate, or to move into our general service if they want to find a way of bringing about change and stay together.

If people do want to separate or divorce, we can help them to become less defensive, opening up the space which is invaluable when making the decisions required around childcare and splitting finances. This makes the process of legal separation or divorce less expensive both financially and emotionally, preventing long, drawn out conflict and potentially having to resort to the family courts to resolve matters. Using the courts can take years and makes it much harder on everyone, especially the children.

Ahead of the first consultation we ask both partners to answer a series of questions on a form, which is completely confidential and is not shared between the couple. This allows us to find out what the main areas of concern are and how these issues are perceived by each partner.

How the Divorce and Separation Service Works

Dr Avi Shmueli explains how the Divorce and Separation Consultation Service works and what to expect.  

Key information

Who is this service for?

This service is open to couples or individuals, prior to, during or after separation or divorce.  The service is also open to those who are uncertain about whether they wish to separate. 

How much does it cost:

Fees for our Divorce and Separation Consultation Service range between £100 - £180 per session.  You will initially be offered a block of three sessions with one of our specially trained therapists.

For many people the three sessions initially offered are enough, others decide to have more, again offered in blocks of three. This is not a long-term therapy service but one that helps people think about their lives and how they want to live them, making the best choices they can.  

How to book an appointment

To book a consultation appointment in this service, email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or call us on 020 7380 1960.

Resources and information

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    Separating or divorcing: Government Guidance

    Sorting out Separation is part of the Government’s help & support for separated families initiative. Access the HSSF Toolkit here

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    Reducing the impact of interparental conflict on children’s mental health

    Tavistock Relationships and Fitzrovia Youth in Action have been funded by BBC Children in Need to deliver therapeutic support to parents involved in disputes and also a peer mentoring to the children of those parents.

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    Grace & Pavel's Story

    At that time they were separated but Pavel was angry and upset because he felt Grace was preventing him seeing their 2 year old daughter, Summer. Grace and Pavel had never lived together and had only known each other a few months when Grace fell pregnant.

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Relationship Support for employees of Dorset Council Children's Services

Supporting staff and their relationships

Dorset Council logoTavistock Relationships is offering free relationship support to employees of Dorset Council Children's Services concerned about stress on their relationship, and other anxieties such as health, money, loneliness, feeling low or being overwhelmed.

Funded by Dorset Council, the programme offers up to 5 online sessions with a trained relationship practitioner.

What is our approach?

Our approach focusses on strengths in your relationships at times when you may feel strained or under pressure. We help couples to recover or hold onto their resilience during the ups and downs brought about by challenges, changes and uncertainty.

Our aim is to provide couples with the thinking space they need to be able to face the issues of living and working in demanding times, understand the stresses they are experiencing and mobilise their resources. Although the support provides up to five sessions, the benefits may be long-term.

What is involved?

Once an appointment has been made, the couple will meet online with a therapist for an session lasting 50 minutes. Couples attending this service are offered up to five sessions with a therapist to explore how their current situation is affecting them and their relationship.

Are the online sessions confidential?

All sessions are confidential. The aim is to provide a safe space where you can work on resolving challenges you may be facing.

When can sessions take place?

We offer early morning, daytime, evening or weekend sessions. They take place online via webcam.

How do I register for this service?

Employees can register for this service using the self referral form below.  Alternatively you can speak to a member of the team by calling 0207 380 1960.

You can find our more about other support available to Dorset employees via the Dorset Council Intranet


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